Have you tried masturbating together with your partner? While many only consider self-pleasure as a solo adventure, mutual masturbation is a fairly common sexual practice amongst couples. Even 50% of couples engage in mutual masturbation, and for a good reason – those couples who engage in mutual masturbation report better sexual satisfaction than those who don’t.
Discover more about mutual masturbation, why you might want to try it, and the best sex toys to help you enhance the experience.
What Is Mutual Masturbation?
Mutual masturbation is a sexual activity when two or more partners masturbate together or masturbate each other. You can use your hands, toys, or both.
The Appeal of Mutual Masturbation
There are many reasons why mutual masturbation might be arousing. First, it allows couples to explore sex beyond intercourse. Not everything has to be penetration-centered in heterosexual relationships, and by masturbating together, couples can learn new ways to experience pleasure.
The second benefit of mutual masturbation is that it can allow partners to show each other how they like to be pleasured. It gives a visual or hands-on approach to better understanding what someone does or doesn’t like.
Lastly, mutual masturbation allows couples to explore voyeurism and exhibitionism in a pressure-free, safe environment. If you’re into voyeurism, then watching your partner masturbate can be arousing, and if you’re into exhibitionism, having your partner watch you can also be pleasurable.
7 Best Sex Toys To Enhance Mutual Masturbation
While a mutual masturbation session can feel great and be fun without sex toys, adding a toy into the mix can really elevate the experience and bring some novelty into your routine. So, here are seven sex toys that can complement any mutual masturbation session:
DOT
DOT is a very unique and innovative clitoral vibrator. The small pinpoint tip offers precise stimulation that blows your mind without numbing the clitoris area like some other vibrators do. Why does it matter? DOT can allow you to experience multiple orgasms during a masturbation session while your partner watches.
Plus, the unique design of the vibrator allows you to play around and even use the vibe on your partner–there are no rules for sex toys when it comes to gender, so play around and find what feels best.
TOR 3
TOR 3 is a premium cock ring designed to enhance solo and partnered play. It’s waterproof, so you can use it even in the shower, and has eight different vibration patterns.
TOR 3 can be a great addition to a mutual masturbation session because it makes your erections harder, stronger and last longer. Not only will the pleasure be more intense, but you’ll also be able to have a longer session to enjoy watching your partner.
It’s also a great tool to explore edging, or intentionally delaying an orgasm to increase pleasure. Make it a game in which partner can edge longer before reaching an orgasm. TOR 3 is app-controlled, so your partner can control your vibrations as they watch you.
Smart Wand 2
Smart Wand 2 is the ultimate wand vibrator that can be used by you or your partner during a mutual masturbation session. The ergonomic design makes it easy to hold against either of your bodies during erotic play. The vibrations are powerful, and the battery is long-lasting, so you can take your time exploring different erogenous zones.
SORAYA Beads
SORAYA Beads is a truly unique and luxurious anal toy that is the perfect vibrator to enhance your mutual masturbation sessions if you are looking to add anal stimulation to the mix. The toy’s unique cascading design arouses the sensitive nerves in and around the anus, and the Bow-Motion technology creates a thrusting-like sensation without you having to thrust the vibrator.
You and your partner might have trouble deciding which one of you should use this bad boy. Because of its design, it can reach a P-spot in people with penises and an A-spot in people with vulvas, which makes it a super versatile toy to have for every couple.
IDA Wave
IDA Wave is an app-controlled dual vibrator designed to take solo pleasure to new heights. It has two powerful motors, which stimulate the G-spot and the clitoris at the same time and brings mind-blowing orgasms. Sometimes even multiple ones.
It’s the perfect mutual masturbation toy for two reasons. First, it allows for the partner to use it to enjoy a hands-free masturbation experience, so you can focus all the attention on watching your partner pleasure themselves.
Second, because it’s app-controlled, you can give your partner control of your pleasure. They can take charge and set the intensity and patterns of the vibe while you use it, which can add an extra layer of fun to any mutual masturbation session.
SIRI 3
SIRI 3 is a unique clitoral stimulator that can take your mutual masturbation sessions to the next level. How, you might ask? Well, this cute little vibe is sound-activated, and you can sync the vibrations to the music you’re listening to.
Making sex playlists and playing sensual music in the background can be a great way to elevate your partnered play. Siri 3 makes it even more fun because you and your partner can choose songs specifically for your mutual masturbation sessions. And how sexy it is to listen to a song while watching each other when you know that your partner’s vibe vibrates according to the beat of the song?
F1S V2
F1S V2 is a male masturbator designed for those looking to enhance their masturbation sessions or improve their stamina. Using this bad boy during a mutual masturbation session allows you to lay back, relax, and focus on watching your partner while the masturbator does the job for you.
Also, this toy is app-controlled. That means that if you desire, you might allow your partner to take charge of your pleasure. Give them the app so they can control the speed and intensity of the stimulation without touching you. It can be a huge turn-on and a very subtle way to dabble in some powerplay.
Discover pleasure with:
SONA 2
ENIGMA
F1S V2
HUGO 2
GIGI 3
SORAYA Wave